the idle bard
series of essays and thoughts, rantings and ravings for the modern world by a country girl in abu dhabi by Alfie N.H. (author of Strangers, Conversations & Thoughts, series of essays and poems by The Idle Bard)
Thursday, August 10, 2006
All is Fair in Love and War
Who was it who said that? Was it Ernest Hemingway? Or Madeline Albright? Hehe.
Its absolutely wrong. Fair is never in love nor in war. There is no use for pain, misery, hurt, wound, intentional death and heartache. People should know beforehand what they are about to do. They must be sure or else they leave trails of wounded hearts, broken souls.
Love is never fair and neither is war.
I broke so many hearts for you and you broke my heart in return. It must be the war or more painful, it must be me.
posted by alfieping at 2:06 PM | 0 comments
Previous Posts
- Long time
- July 2008
- 2008 - New and better beginnings
- Shopping Spree..... Wilder than Ever
- A Night with the International Relations Students
- Busy Bee
- Just a Thought
- Questions Again...
- Manners, Mister! Manners!
- Carrefour Lunch and Fake LV, and oh, my birthday
Yokes
For My Beloved Brother Mark
World Links
- Google News
- World News
- United Nations
- Gulf News
- Philippine Daily Inquirer
- Manila Bulletin
- The New York Times
- Counter Punch News
- Conspiracy Theories
My Links
- Pep Talk
- Wish List
- Poetry.com
- My Phlog
- My Budding Project
- Few of Life's Best Things
- Shopping Notes
- Dubai Writers
Cravings
And the Others
- Victoria's Secret
- HBO
- Reflections
- Apathy Curve
- Business Humor
- Secret Dubai Diary
- Coffee Schmuck
- Travesty
- Kimmy & Jacob
-
Ebooks!
More Links
My Family
- Alfonso Jr. (Papang)+ - the best Dad in the World
- Erlinda (Mamang) - she is my mom
- Yvonne (eldest sister) - she is an intelligent girl
- Joeffry (brother-in-law, TYvonne's hubby) - a good guy for Yvonne
- Marie Grace-Jic (younger sister) - she needs a good husband
- Alfonso III-Nanun (younger brother) - man of the house
- Mark Alfonsus (youngest brother)+ - the well-loved hardworking Architect
- Fort (my nephew, Nanun's boy) - a gift from God
- Sheryl (my sister-in-law, Nanun's wife) - a sweet ivy
My Grandparents
- Alfonso Sr. (grandpa)+ - never met him
- Rosita (grandma)+ - cool one
- Renerio-Lolo Nerio (grandpa)+ - he was always laughing
- Beatriz-Lola Atring (grandma) - she is in Chicago
My Aunts
- Cruziphina + - never met her
- Magdalena - she is in Chicago
- Gloria-Mommy (Longino's wife) - a sweet small woman
- Aunt Bella
- Aunt Ophelia
- Manang Langga
- Tata
- Aunt Malou
- Aunt Laida
- Aunt Hermisa-Emie
- Aunt >
- Aunt
My Uncles
- Longino-Daddy (dad's bro)+ - a cowboy politician
- Uncle Totong
- Uncle Jimmy
- Uncle John +
- Uncle Mario +
- Uncle Vic
- Uncle Efren
- Uncle Fred
- Uncle Joel>
- Uncle Roger
- *******
- *******
- *******
- *******
- *******
My Cousins
- Florable-Vim + - a talented musician
- Hazel Jayne-Totie - she is in Chicago
- Longine-Jinggoy - a marine care-giver
- Julius Caesar-Bayong - a playboy
- Christopher-Chris - the twin brother of Alex
- Alexander-Alex - the twin brother of Chris
- Rigel Cruzalex-Rigel - he is handsome but married
- Floramae-Mae (my cousin-in-law, wife of Rigel) - a teacher and a very hardworking woman
- May Anne
- Bea - a pretty girl crazy over Cueshe Ruben
- Osh-Ruch - the pretty sister of Bea
- Eboy - the cute brother of Bea
- *******
- *******
My Nieces & Nephews
- Jai-jai
- JR
- ******
- ******
- ******
My Friends
- Anna
- Brian
- Bunso
- Cristina
- Cheryl
- Connie
- Dana
- Djahanne
- Ericka
- Girlie
- Karen
- Loi
- Marga
- Esmi
- Thea
- Marius
- Maria
- Heba
- Sue Ann
- Sarah
- Sheena
- Mitchel
- Ayn
- Uella
- Weng
- Gary
- Gina
- TBetty
- Crystal
- Earl
- Richard
- Laarni
- Oliver
- Dodong
- Earl
- ***
- ***
Acquaintances
- Tania (French)
- Linda (Polish)
- Gabi (German)
- Angela (Greek)
- Suzanne (South African)
- Gerhard (South African)
- Rory (South African)
- Farah (Lebanese)
- Huda (Bayt.com)
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
Good Books I've Read
- Angels & Demons
- Sisters & Strangers
- Class Reunion
- Acts of Faith
- Passions of the Mind
- From A to B and Back Again
- Oliver Twist
- Works of Ralph Waldo Emerson
- House of Spirits
- Emotional Intelligence
- Tuesdays with Morrie
- Conversations with God
- Embraced by the Light
- Living, Loving and Learning
- The Da Vinci Code
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
Favorite Movies
- Closer
- Someone Like You
- Only You
- Last of the Mohicans
- Legends of the Fall
- Alfie
- Little Black Book
- Crash
- Bridget Jone's Diary
- In Her Shoes
- My Big Fat Greek Wedding
- Saving Private Ryan
- When a Man Loves a Woman
- Hanging Up
- AS Good as It Gets
- Twister
- Something's Gotta Give
- In the Cut
- Blast from the Past
- The Mummy
- Bedazzled
- The Quiet American
- Harry Meets Sally
- Sleepless in Seattle
- While You Were Sleeping
- City of Angels
- You've Got Mail
- Kate & Leopold
- Against the Ropes
- The Family Stone
- Rumor Has It
- Devil's Advocate
- Constantine
- The Cider House Rules
- Men of Honor
- Sweet November
- The Italian Job
- Coyote Ugly
- Failure to Launch
- Two Weeks Notice
- Practical Magic
- Princess Diaries
- Devil's Advocate
- Speed
- Forces of Nature
- Pretty Woman
- Autumn in New York
- My Best Friend's Wedding
- Miss Congeniality
- Murder by Numbers
- Divine Secrets of Ya-Ya Sisterhood
- Bruce Almighty
- White Oleander
- Virgin Suicidesa>
- Hell Boy
- Four Weddings and A Funeral
- Sixth Sense
- Runaway Bride
- Dr T and the Women
Serial Series
- Sex & the City
- Scrubs
- Boston Legal
- CSI
- Lost
- Seinfield
- Jay Leno
- Ed
- Gilmore Girls
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- *****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
- ****
Cute Little Things on the Net
- ****
- ****
Techno Stuff I Touch Each Day
- BV - Toshiba Satellite A30-303: PSA30E-0052 My PC
- Nokia 6230 My Phone
- Palm Zire 31
- Epson Scanner - Office
- Benq Monitor - Office
- Panasonic Digital Phone - Office
- TouchMate Keyboard - Office
- Genius Mouse - Office
- Mazda 3 Sports - My Car
- *****
Currently Munching
- Olives and Apricots
- Tapioca with Milk, Strawberry Jam and Macapuno
- *****
Copyrights
- Creative Commons Copyright
- The write up that appears here are all original by the author unless otherwise specified so please refrain from using without permission or if you wish to use, please contact the author and or quote the author.
- Jun 22, 2005
- Jun 25, 2005
- Jun 26, 2005
- Jun 27, 2005
- Jun 28, 2005
- Jun 29, 2005
- Jun 30, 2005
- Jul 5, 2005
- Jul 6, 2005
- Jul 7, 2005
- Jul 10, 2005
- Jul 11, 2005
- Jul 12, 2005
- Jul 16, 2005
- Jul 17, 2005
- Jul 18, 2005
- Jul 20, 2005
- Jul 23, 2005
- Jul 26, 2005
- Jul 27, 2005
- Jul 28, 2005
- Aug 2, 2005
- Aug 3, 2005
- Aug 4, 2005
- Aug 10, 2005
- Aug 13, 2005
- Aug 17, 2005
- Aug 18, 2005
- Aug 19, 2005
- Aug 20, 2005
- Aug 21, 2005
- Aug 24, 2005
- Sep 4, 2005
- Sep 6, 2005
- Sep 8, 2005
- Sep 12, 2005
- Sep 18, 2005
- Sep 20, 2005
- Sep 21, 2005
- Sep 24, 2005
- Sep 27, 2005
- Oct 2, 2005
- Oct 4, 2005
- Oct 10, 2005
- Oct 13, 2005
- Oct 16, 2005
- Oct 30, 2005
- Nov 12, 2005
- Nov 13, 2005
- Nov 20, 2005
- Dec 1, 2005
- Dec 6, 2005
- Dec 21, 2005
- Jan 7, 2006
- Jan 21, 2006
- Feb 6, 2006
- Feb 8, 2006
- Feb 11, 2006
- Feb 13, 2006
- Feb 14, 2006
- Feb 16, 2006
- Feb 23, 2006
- Mar 3, 2006
- Mar 4, 2006
- Mar 5, 2006
- Mar 30, 2006
- Apr 11, 2006
- Apr 13, 2006
- Apr 15, 2006
- Apr 19, 2006
- Apr 22, 2006
- Apr 24, 2006
- Apr 28, 2006
- Apr 30, 2006
- May 2, 2006
- May 4, 2006
- May 10, 2006
- May 20, 2006
- May 22, 2006
- May 23, 2006
- May 27, 2006
- May 28, 2006
- May 29, 2006
- May 30, 2006
- May 31, 2006
- Jun 3, 2006
- Jun 5, 2006
- Jun 7, 2006
- Jun 10, 2006
- Jun 12, 2006
- Jun 13, 2006
- Jun 14, 2006
- Jun 15, 2006
- Jun 17, 2006
- Jun 18, 2006
- Jun 19, 2006
- Jun 20, 2006
- Jun 21, 2006
- Jun 22, 2006
- Jun 24, 2006
- Jun 25, 2006
- Jun 27, 2006
- Jun 29, 2006
- Jul 2, 2006
- Jul 4, 2006
- Jul 5, 2006
- Jul 8, 2006
- Jul 9, 2006
- Jul 10, 2006
- Jul 11, 2006
- Jul 13, 2006
- Jul 15, 2006
- Jul 17, 2006
- Jul 18, 2006
- Jul 19, 2006
- Jul 20, 2006
- Jul 25, 2006
- Jul 27, 2006
- Jul 30, 2006
- Aug 2, 2006
- Aug 5, 2006
- Aug 6, 2006
- Aug 7, 2006
- Aug 10, 2006
- Aug 16, 2006
- Aug 19, 2006
- Aug 22, 2006
- Aug 23, 2006
- Aug 26, 2006
- Aug 27, 2006
- Aug 28, 2006
- Aug 29, 2006
- Aug 30, 2006
- Aug 31, 2006
- Sep 2, 2006
- Sep 5, 2006
- Sep 6, 2006
- Sep 27, 2006
- Oct 8, 2006
- Oct 12, 2006
- Oct 22, 2006
- Oct 24, 2006
- Oct 30, 2006
- Nov 22, 2006
- Feb 3, 2007
- Feb 13, 2007
- Mar 25, 2007
- Mar 26, 2007
- Apr 2, 2007
- Apr 3, 2007
- Apr 4, 2007
- Apr 8, 2007
- Apr 9, 2007
- Apr 21, 2007
- Apr 25, 2007
- May 7, 2007
- May 12, 2007
- May 13, 2007
- May 14, 2007
- May 15, 2007
- May 16, 2007
- May 19, 2007
- May 21, 2007
- May 28, 2007
- Jun 20, 2007
- Jul 29, 2007
- Jan 4, 2008
- Jul 17, 2008
- Jun 2, 2010
- Name: alfieping
- Location: Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates
Archives
About Me
A hopeless romantic gone stale, a cynic and a skeptic most often yet gullible sometimes. I cry easily and my heart heaves when I read something intense, like the 4 brothers who are all working as soldiers in Iraq. Must be because I have asthma. I have a book pending to be published. Awaiting for a good editor who would not think I wrote the book for him. I wanted to be a lawyer but had some detours on the road so I will have to see if I will finish that goal. I like dining with everything in place and matching each silverware and china. I love chocolates and I recently had an affair with someone special named BV. It will be a long one. Something about me... seeks to conform what needs to be confirmed... an afterthought of what was supposedly a wonderful dream.. a longing yet to be desired... a goal yet to be achieved.. in the land of confusion and mixed aboriginalities i am a gentle mortal soul, seeking peace in this hectic arena of life... i am an idle bard....