Tame me, change me, love me

Well, that should be the other way around but lately, I have had my share of men wanting to tame me, change me and then love me. If there was a man who loved, then the two other things would have been optional.

First and foremost, I am not wild. I am just unpredictable, impulsive, spontaneous, passionate and all things natural. I do not let chains bind me or love cage me. I, perhaps have not found the right person who can accept me for what I am and for who I am.

Secondly, if I am not fine the way I am, why the hell would you waste your time on me? You can just move and pick on your next target than to make it a mission to change me into the mold that you like. All the times, I have real battles with whoever I am with because they want to change me into something that they have crafted in their imaginations. I will be just fine the way I am. Thank you very much. You can go now.

Thirdly, I do not need to be the pathetic loser who will wait and settle here so that you can love me. If you love me, love me, if you dont love me then go, you are not forced to love me. Love does not come by force or by obligation. Love is a free will, a free gift that we can give away. There can be no beggars for love and if there is one, that would not be me.

Love me, then, I love you.

Men

Men are silly beings. They all want things from women that most of them cannot give:

commitment, assurance, security and stability.

Why? Because they want to prove themselves something, who knows what.