What a girl needs... What a woman desires... What a lady wants..
What do girls need... they need friends, they need moisturizer, they need lotion, conditoner and other things that make them feel nice... they need allowance to shop shoes, bags and other trinkets that will make them happy, also allowance for hanging out with fellow girls as they sip frappuccino or tea or coffee and fill up each others time....
Girls need something to occupy their time in order to make each day a memorable one (that should be on top of friends, shopping, going to college/school, family).. So some choose to write, some choose to dive, others go snorkeling, swimming, fishing, others choose to go mountain climbing, others choose to read, to travel, stitch, attend clubs (whether environmental, charitable organizations, religious, political, to mention a few.)
What a girl needs is what shapes her into becoming the woman she desires.... These are the things which defines her longings. These are the things that keep her sane and stable in most of her decisions as she battles the road towards becoming a lady..
A lady is the perfection of a girl in constant practice. She becomes real, independent, strong and a monument of what the girl seeks to be...
So what does a lady wants.... she wants a man to love, a man to respect. She wants a man who loves her back, who respects her. She wants a man who can give her the balance of what she is, the equal of what she seeks to be. Every woman and every lady seeks for the same thing. Stability, love, sanity, love, financial security, love, fidelity, respect, love, intellectual conversations, love, emotional support, love, thoughtfulness, love, generosity, love, silence, love, surprises and love.
A woman desires something better than that which her girly life has achieved and something more than which her lady life is already living in.
A woman does not seek perfection in a man, but seeks for the beauty that the man can fill into her already beautiful world.
A woman is a girl and a lady combined who seeks to to love and be loved.
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